I don’t know about you but I joined facebook because I fell for that line about “connecting”. I had high hopes for my facebook account…envisioning mornings spent over the computer answering what would undoubtedly be the dozens of emails I would receive from my friends. So I joined….and waited. I would one by one acquire new friends, all the while waiting for MY friend requests to roll in. Where were they? Did they get lost in the *gulp* mail?
My grand total after a year and a half on facebook is less than 100…more than 50…okay, well, just 59…at the moment, but I have hopes of hitting the big “6” “0” any day now.
This morning I check my newsfeed. It’s become a rather daunting task since kid genius changed up facebook on all of us. Now there are lists. Lists you can make of “important” friends. This way, you can see their posts first…or something like that. It is supposed to make us “connect” even better. It has made me connect with REALITY! The reality that I am not on anyone’s “important” friends list. (I cringe even thinking about it.) At least before, on their way to reading the posts that they REALLY wanted to read, my “friends” would be forced to scroll past mine, thereby randomly clicking “like” or typing a cute little smiley face in the comments section.
My cute little smiley faces have now been replaced by the sounds of chirping crickets. As I read various friend’s accounts of parties, playdates or worse…see picture proof posted before me, I cannot help but wonder…who really is facebook helping me connect with??